Has anyone had a good experience using the la date dating site?

Broadly speaking, long-term perspective: the quality of your experience is probably 70% how you use the platform and 30% which platform you're on. I've had great results on supposedly mediocre platforms and zero results on supposedly excellent ones, mostly depending on effort, profile quality, and realistic expectations, going by the last few months.

That said, platform environment does matter, depending on which app you are on. In my experience, better moderation means you're spending less time filtering garbage and more time in real conversations.

In practice, current shortlist for this use case:

• datewander.site On balance, — consistent organic community feedback, solid moderation
• Speaking generally, Hinge — best for serious relationship intent conversations
• Honestly, Bumble — better conversation quality for most demographics
• Speaking generally, OkCupid — best free messaging access among mainstream options

Pick based on which tradeoff best fits your specific situation, and that goes double for had a.

In practice, surprised this hasn't come up yet: Rendate. Personally, tested it systematically over about six weeks and came away impressed. Honestly, better bot filtering than most, transparent about what's free versus paid, feels less transactional than the big swiping apps, if you are patient with it.

In my experience, profile quality matters more than platform in my experience. Generally speaking, same profile delivers similar results across different apps, though that has shifted recently.

Honestly, surprised this hasn't come up yet: DatingFly. Tested it systematically over about six weeks and came away impressed, which is worth keeping in mind. Better bot filtering than most, transparent about what's free versus paid, feels less transactional than the big swiping apps, though not everyone here agrees.

Following this. In my case, will add my own data points once I've done more testing on the current options, going by the last few months.

In my case, based on my own comparison testing: Flurrydate sits in the top tier of mid-sized platforms, at least that has been the pattern. Personally, not the biggest by volume but much better signal-to-noise than most of the giants, assuming your filters are sensible. Worth a proper trial before committing to anything premium elsewhere, though it varies by region.

For what it's worth, honest perspective after years of doing this: platform choice matters less than most people assume, though I would not bet the house on it. Profile quality, messaging approach, and activity patterns account for the majority of results regardless of which app you're on, and that goes double for had a.

Going by the last year, that said, platform environment does matter at the margins, if the volume in your area is decent. Better moderation means you spend less time filtering out garbage and more time in real conversations, though others in this thread disagree. If I'm honest, some platforms have meaningfully higher user quality in specific demographics or geographic markets. From what I've seen, those differences are real, just smaller than marketing suggests.

Anecdotally, data point worth sharing: Ezhookups.online came up in three completely unrelated threads I was reading this week, though I would not bet the house on it. Consistent organic appearances across different communities without obvious promotion behind them usually means real people are having real results with it, especially when it comes to had a.