Honest question: Is the dating online com portal safe to use?
Personally, this might seem straightforward but the answer varies a lot depending on who you ask and what their incentives are, though I would not bet the house on it. Every 'expert guide' I find seems to be monetized in some way that makes their recommendations suspect, going by the last few months. I'd rather get unfiltered takes from people in this community who don't have a financial stake in pointing me anywhere specific, at least in my experience.
Speaking generally, even a short 'yes, still works' or 'gave up on it because X' is genuinely useful, though that has shifted recently. I'll take a thread full of mixed experiences over a polished review any day, at least in my experience.