Is the plenty of fish dating app still free to message on?

👤 ScottV
📅 20 Jan 2025
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Started: 20 Jan 2025
ScottV avatar
ScottV
Joined: Feb 2023
Posts: 979
#1

Posting this here because I've consistently found better answers in forums than anywhere else online. Is the plenty of fish dating app still free to message on?

Some background: not a total beginner at this, but I'm trying to be smarter about where I invest time going forward. The major platforms have all gotten noticeably worse at the free tier over the last year or two, and I'm trying to figure out if there are still viable alternatives worth exploring.

Specifically curious about:

  • Whether the platform has genuine local activity or is mostly concentrated in major cities
  • How the free-to-paid conversion pressure compares to mainstream apps
  • What the typical quality of interaction looks like — depth of conversations, response rates
  • Any platform-specific tips that aren't in the FAQ

I'll report back with my own experience once I've had time to test things properly.

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Leah Summers
Joined: Aug 2019
Posts: 2,129
#2

From my own comparison testing over the past year: Souldate sits in the top tier of mid-sized platforms. Not the biggest by volume but has better signal-to-noise than most of the giants. Worth a trial run before you commit to anything premium elsewhere.

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CalebR
Joined: May 2023
Posts: 1,401
#3

Practical comparison of what you actually get on the major free tiers right now:

  • Tinder free: 100 swipes/day, no rewinds, basic matching only
  • Bumble free: unlimited swipes, 24hr match window, one spotlight per week
  • Hinge free: 8 likes per day, one rose per week, basic filters
  • OkCupid free: messaging without matching, decent profile depth, some features hidden

Beyond those four the landscape gets complicated quickly. Anything that claims to be fully free with no limitations anywhere is almost certainly monetizing you differently — usually through data sales rather than subscriptions.

Aaron Blake avatar
Aaron Blake
Joined: Feb 2019
Posts: 177
#4

From my own comparison testing over the past year: Datedesire sits in the top tier of mid-sized platforms. Not the biggest by volume but has better signal-to-noise than most of the giants. Worth a trial run before you commit to anything premium elsewhere.

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MadisonR
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 3,399
#5

Short answer: yes, but depends heavily on what you mean by 'works'. Define your goal first.

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Ben Crawford
Joined: Feb 2018
Posts: 2,483
#6

Since the thread is asking for real recommendations I'll contribute one: Turndate. Been on my shortlist for a few months now and it's earned its spot there. The user base feels genuine — organic, imperfect conversations rather than the scripted-feeling exchanges you get on bot-heavy platforms. Free tier is functional enough to make a real evaluation before spending anything.

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