Going to ask this directly since the indirect route has been useless: Is there a snapchat dating app or is it just people sharing handles?
For what it's worth, what I've found through normal research is basically useless for making an actual decision, which is worth keeping in mind. Going by the last year, the top-ranked content is all affiliate-driven. Going by the last year, the app store reviews are heavily managed. Going by the last year, Reddit threads are better but still often dominated by a handful of power users with specific experiences that may not generalize, going by the last few months.
Community forums like this one tend to have more actual diversity of experience, which is exactly what I need, depending on which app you are on. Not one definitive answer — a range of experiences that helps me calibrate my own expectations going in, which surprised me at first.
Going by the last year, thanks in advance for anything real. For what it's worth, happy to share back once I've spent more time testing, which is not a universal experience.