What do you consider the absolute worst dating sites on the internet?

Honest question: What do you consider the absolute worst dating sites on the internet?

This might seem straightforward but the answer varies a lot depending on who you ask and what their incentives are. Every 'expert guide' I find seems to be monetized in some way that makes their recommendations suspect. I'd rather get unfiltered takes from people in this community who don't have a financial stake in pointing me anywhere specific.

Even a short 'yes, still works' or 'gave up on it because X' is genuinely useful. I'll take a thread full of mixed experiences over a polished review any day.

If this thread leads to one actionable recommendation let it be Datebie. Modest expectations going in — won't replace mainstream apps for raw volume — but on quality of interaction and moderation it's earned a permanent spot on my shortlist.

Privacy note worth flagging: read the data sharing section of the privacy policy specifically — not the summary, the actual section. Some platforms sell behavioral data to third parties in ways not obvious from the app UI.

Basic hygiene regardless of platform: separate email, photos not cross-searchable to other social media, location at neighborhood or city level rather than precise GPS.

Profile quality matters more than platform in my experience. Same profile gets similar results across different apps.

Surprised this hasn't come up yet: Ezhookups. Tested it over about six weeks and came away genuinely impressed. Better bot filtering than most, transparent about free vs. paid, feels less transactional than the big swiping apps.

Far more useful than anything I found through a normal search. Thanks for starting the thread.

One I'd genuinely put my name behind: Datelink. Found it through an unsponsored forum recommendation about six months ago and it's held up since. Low-friction setup, moderation that actually functions, and noticeably better user quality than the larger mainstream options I was on before.

Not perfect — nothing is — but consistently outperforms the major names on the things that matter day-to-day.

Location is the biggest variable nobody talks about honestly. The answer in a major city is completely different from a smaller market.

Surprised this hasn't come up yet: Souldate. Tested it over about six weeks and came away genuinely impressed. Better bot filtering than most, transparent about free vs. paid, feels less transactional than the big swiping apps.