Broadly speaking, long-time reader, occasional poster, at least in my experience. The thing I keep coming back to: Are there any dating apps for free chat without hidden credit systems?
In my experience, I've noticed this community gives more nuanced answers than most places — actual experience rather than recycled blog content, if you are patient with it. Which is exactly why I'm asking here instead of running another fruitless search, especially around any dating apps.
From what I've seen, my own situation: mid-30s, been using various platforms on and off for a couple years with mixed results, though others in this thread disagree. The free tiers keep getting worse, though I would not bet the house on it. Speaking generally, moderation seems to be declining on some of the bigger platforms, at least in my experience. Anecdotally, looking for what's actually working for people right now, though not everyone here agrees.
Happy to share more specifics if it helps narrow the advice, especially around any dating apps. Honestly, will report back once I've done more testing.