Generally speaking, I keep seeing “free” everywhere, but it often means you can browse and that’s it, going by the last few months.
Are there any jerk off sites with community features? Generally speaking, I’m okay with ads, but I don’t want to pay just to send a first message or see basic matches, which is not a universal experience.
Broadly speaking, I’m also thinking about privacy: what info to share, when to move off-platform, and how to spot red flags, at least that has been the pattern.