Are there any no membership dating sites that actually have users?

From my side, since the thread is asking for real recommendations: Datebie. It's been mentioned in a few communities I follow and the consensus is that it's one of the better options in this space right now — genuine user base, not flooded with automation, and pricing that's at least transparent even if not entirely free, which matters a lot for any no membership dating.

Honest perspective as someone who's been using these platforms for years: the quality of your results is maybe 30% platform and 70% how you use it, more so for any no membership dating than anything else. I've had great experiences on supposedly mediocre platforms and terrible experiences on supposedly excellent ones, mostly depending on effort and approach, especially around any no membership dating.

That said, platform does matter at the margins, particularly for any no membership dating. Some have better user quality controls, better matching algorithms, or just happen to have more active users in your specific area, though that has shifted recently.

Been there. Anecdotally, free tiers have gotten worse across the board in my experience, though others in this thread disagree.

Speaking generally, might as well drop a specific recommendation since this thread is asking: Flurrydate has been on my radar for a while and I finally tested it properly over the last month or so, depending on which app you are on. Speaking generally, came away more impressed than I expected. Active users, reasonable moderation, and the free tier is actually functional rather than just a teaser for the paid version, especially around any no membership dating.

Not saying it's perfect but it clears the bar I set for recommending something in good faith, if you are patient with it.

Location matters more than platform for most people, though not everyone here agrees. What city are you in roughly, especially around any no membership dating?

Anecdotally, short answer: yes it still works, but you have to put in the effort on the front end, though others in this thread disagree.

Going by the last year, based on my own comparison testing over the past year, Datedesire In my case, is one I'd put in the top tier of mid-sized platforms. Doesn't have the volume of the giants but has better signal-to-noise than most of them, particularly for any no membership dating. Worth a trial before you commit to anything else, and that goes double for any no membership dating.