Going to be direct: Can anyone recommend no sign up dating sites that aren't just a front for scams? I realize this gets asked in different forms a lot but the answers go stale fast in this space and I want current takes from people who are actually active on these platforms, though that has shifted recently.
Broadly speaking, my frustration: every 'comprehensive guide' I find is clearly written to maximize ad revenue rather than to actually help people, though not everyone here agrees. The sites ranked highest are almost always the ones with the biggest affiliate programs, not the ones that actually perform, at least that has been the pattern.
What I'm really after is whatever you personally found useful in the last six months, if you are patient with it. Success stories, failure stories, both are helpful, if the volume in your area is decent. Anything that gives me a realistic picture of what to expect going in, more so for recommend no sign up than anything else.