Anecdotally, I’m looking for real experiences from people who have actually used these platforms recently, though not everyone here agrees.
Is 321 swx chat still operating? I’m okay with ads, but I don’t want to pay just to send a first message or see basic matches, depending on which app you are on.
I’m also thinking about privacy: what info to share, when to move off-platform, and how to spot red flags, though that has shifted recently.