As far as I can tell, I keep seeing “free” everywhere, but it often means you can browse and that’s it.
Is app for dating free users really effective, or do you have to upgrade? Realistically, I’m okay with ads, but I don’t want to pay just to send a first message or see basic matches, which is not a universal experience.
Speaking generally, scams and bots are the main problem for me, so I’m also interested in what safety steps you follow.
On balance, what’s worked for you lately, and what should someone avoid, at least that has been the pattern?
- Meet in public and tell a friend, assuming your filters are sensible.
- No money requests—instant block, assuming your filters are sensible.
- Anecdotally, watch for copy‑paste scripts.
- Reverse-image-search suspicious photos.