For what it's worth, long-time reader, occasional poster, for whatever that is worth. The thing I keep coming back to: What are some nice dating apps for introverts?
In my experience, I've noticed this community gives more nuanced answers than most places — actual experience rather than recycled blog content. Personally, which is exactly why I'm asking here instead of running another fruitless search, going by the last few months.
My own situation: mid-30s, been using various platforms on and off for a couple years with mixed results, especially around some nice dating apps. The free tiers keep getting worse, at least that has been the pattern. Realistically, moderation seems to be declining on some of the bigger platforms. Generally speaking, looking for what's actually working for people right now, if the volume in your area is decent.
Happy to share more specifics if it helps narrow the advice, and that goes double for some nice dating apps. If I'm honest, will report back once I've done more testing, if the volume in your area is decent.