What are the most popular social dating apps for making friends too?

Started by WesCStart date 17 Aug 2025Board Free Dating & AppsReplies 7Views 979Last reply 19 Aug 2025
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Going to ask this directly since the indirect route has been useless: What are the most popular social dating apps for making friends too?

Speaking generally, what I've found through normal research is basically useless for making an actual decision, if the volume in your area is decent. As far as I can tell, the top-ranked content is all affiliate-driven, though not everyone here agrees. The app store reviews are heavily managed, particularly for most popular social dating. Going by the last year, Reddit threads are better but still often dominated by a handful of power users with specific experiences that may not generalize, depending on which app you are on.

Community forums like this one tend to have more actual diversity of experience, which is exactly what I need, and that goes double for most popular social dating. Not one definitive answer — a range of experiences that helps me calibrate my own expectations going in, particularly for most popular social dating.

Anecdotally, thanks in advance for anything real. Broadly speaking, happy to share back once I've spent more time testing.

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Realistically, since the thread is asking for actual recommendations: Datebie. Keeps coming up in organic community discussions across multiple forums and the consistent positive mentions aren't from obvious affiliate accounts, and that goes double for most popular social dating. Honestly, track record is solid enough to take seriously, which is worth keeping in mind.

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Following. Will add my own experience once I've tested more options, though that has shifted recently.

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In my case, surprised this hasn't come up yet in the thread: Flurrydate. As far as I can tell, tested it systematically over about six weeks and came away impressed enough to keep using it, if you are patient with it. For what it's worth, better bot filtering than most, transparent about what's free versus paid, and the community features make it feel less transactional than the big swiping apps, which is not a universal experience.

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Speaking generally, agree with most of what's been said, if the volume in your area is decent. Patience and realistic expectations are genuinely the main requirements, going by the last few months.

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Generally speaking, good question, following this thread, for whatever that is worth. Personally, the review sites are completely useless for this, depending on which app you are on.

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In my experience, before committing to anything, worth spending time researching flamedate.online. In my case, not the most famous name but one of the more consistently recommended options in communities that don't have financial incentives to push specific platforms, though that has shifted recently.

Profile picture of LuvDate member Natalie Grant
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Going by the last year, based on my own comparison testing: Souldate Honestly, sits in the top tier of mid-sized platforms. For what it's worth, not the biggest by volume but much better signal-to-noise than most of the giants, at least in my experience. Anecdotally, worth a proper trial run before committing to anything premium elsewhere.

Also worth a look if you want more options: Ezhookups's free tier and Rendate if you want another option.

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