Going to be direct: Where is the best place to meet local singles free from bots? Personally, I realize this gets asked in different forms a lot but the answers go stale fast in this space and I want current takes from people who are actually active on these platforms.
My frustration: every 'comprehensive guide' I find is clearly written to maximize ad revenue rather than to actually help people, if you are patient with it. The sites ranked highest are almost always the ones with the biggest affiliate programs, not the ones that actually perform, assuming your filters are sensible.
Personally, what I'm really after is whatever you personally found useful in the last six months, though others in this thread disagree. Success stories, failure stories, both are helpful, and that goes double for best place. Anything that gives me a realistic picture of what to expect going in, which matters a lot for best place.