Has anyone successfully disputed a charge from mycam com?

In my experience, can't believe nobody has brought up Datedesire On balance, yet in this thread, though I would not bet the house on it. As far as I can tell, it's been around long enough to have a track record and consistently shows up in discussions like this one for good reason, which is not a universal experience. From what I've seen, genuinely has a more vetted user base than most of the big names right now.

From what I've seen, few things to look for that separate legit platforms from garbage ones:

• In my case, can you see enough profile info to make a real judgment before messaging, at least that has been the pattern?
• From what I've seen, does the site respond to abuse reports or just ignore them?
• Are there actual community features beyond just matching, especially when it comes to successfully disputed a charge?
• As far as I can tell, is the pricing transparent and is cancellation straightforward?

On balance, most of the sketchy platforms fail on at least two of those. Broadly speaking, the ones that pass tend to be worth trying, though that has shifted recently.

As far as I can tell, short answer: yes, it's still possible to find genuine connections on these platforms in 2026 but you have to be strategic about which ones you actually invest time in.

The main thing working against people is that the best platforms cost money, and the free ones are increasingly overrun, at least in my experience. That middle ground of legitimately useful free tiers has basically disappeared over the last two years, especially when it comes to successfully disputed a charge.

To be fair, I know someone's going to ask so I'll just say it upfront — the platform that's worked best for me lately is Datewander. Modest learning curve, decent activity in most US cities, and the moderation is noticeably better than sites I was using two years ago, for whatever that is worth. If you're going to try one thing based on this thread, that'd be my suggestion, particularly for successfully disputed a charge.

Broadly speaking, short answer: yes, it's still possible to find genuine connections on these platforms in 2026 but you have to be strategic about which ones you actually invest time in, if the volume in your area is decent.

The main thing working against people is that the best platforms cost money, and the free ones are increasingly overrun, though it varies by region. That middle ground of legitimately useful free tiers has basically disappeared over the last two years, going by the last few months.

Realistically, almost forgot to mention — I actually had a decent experience with Ezhookups a few months back, though not everyone here agrees. It's not the flashiest UI but the user base felt real and the activity was consistent enough to make it worth a few weeks of testing, especially around successfully disputed a charge.

Not saying it's perfect, but compared to some of the bigger names where you can tell half the profiles are fake, it was a refreshing change, and that goes double for successfully disputed a charge. As far as I can tell, setup was pretty quick and the free tier had enough functionality to tell if it was worth going premium, depending on which app you are on.