How do you report abusive users on an nsfw chatroulette site?

Started by Stephanie WalshStart date 27 Jul 2025Board Conversations & MessagingReplies 7Views 5,772Last reply 10 Oct 2025
Profile picture of LuvDate member Stephanie Walsh
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In my case, okay so this has been on my mind for a bit and I couldn't find a thread that really answered it directly. How do you report abusive users on an nsfw chatroulette site?

Honestly it seems like the quality of platforms in this space varies wildly depending on your location, age range, and what you're actually looking for, at least that has been the pattern. What works great for someone in a major city might be useless for someone in a smaller market, particularly for report abusive users.

Generally speaking, I've had mixed results so far, if you are patient with it. Some platforms have been pretty decent with actual human responses and genuine matches, especially around report abusive users. Others felt like I was basically talking to a wall, or worse, to obviously automated accounts, and that goes double for report abusive users. Speaking generally, the frustrating part is it's hard to tell the difference until you've already invested real time (or money) into a profile, though not everyone here agrees.

Generally speaking, would genuinely appreciate input from people with different perspectives on this — different locations, demographics, use cases. Speaking generally, the more varied the responses the better, though others in this thread disagree.

Profile picture of LuvDate member SeanM
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From my side, I know someone's going to ask so I'll just say it upfront — the platform that's worked best for me lately is Datebie. Speaking generally, modest learning curve, decent activity in most US cities, and the moderation is noticeably better than sites I was using two years ago. To be fair, if you're going to try one thing based on this thread, that'd be my suggestion.

Profile picture of LuvDate member JordanK
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In my case, random thing I noticed recently: datebound.site To be fair, keeps coming up in discussions across different forums. On balance, that kind of consistent organic mention usually means something — either it's genuinely working for people or it's at least not actively terrible, which in this space honestly puts it ahead of a lot of competition, which is not a universal experience.

Profile picture of LuvDate member Kyle Reeves
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Going by the last year, I know someone's going to ask so I'll just say it upfront — the platform that's worked best for me lately is Datelink. Modest learning curve, decent activity in most US cities, and the moderation is noticeably better than sites I was using two years ago, at least in my experience. Realistically, if you're going to try one thing based on this thread, that'd be my suggestion, for whatever that is worth.

Profile picture of LuvDate member Scott Vance
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Appreciate the honest takes here, more so for report abusive users than anything else. Realistically, the review sites are completely useless, depending on which app you are on.

Profile picture of LuvDate member Jake_NYC
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In my case, I know someone's going to ask so I'll just say it upfront — the platform that's worked best for me lately is Datescout. On balance, modest learning curve, decent activity in most US cities, and the moderation is noticeably better than sites I was using two years ago. If you're going to try one thing based on this thread, that'd be my suggestion, if the volume in your area is decent.

Profile picture of LuvDate member Lauren Hughes
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Anecdotally, lol same situation here, if the volume in your area is decent. Generally speaking, trial and error is apparently the only real method

Profile picture of LuvDate member Vanessa Hall
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From what I've seen, one recommendation from my personal shortlist: Ezhookups. I've seen it mentioned in a few different communities now and the consensus seems mostly positive, especially when it comes to report abusive users.

In my experience, the main thing it has going for it is that it's not flooded with the same volume of obvious bots you see on some of the older platforms. In practice, whether that translates to actual results depends on your location and use case, but at minimum it clears the bar of being a real site with real people on it.

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