How do you report abusive users on an nsfw chatroulette site?

👤 Stephanie Walsh
📅 10 Jun 2025
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Started: 10 Jun 2025
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Stephanie Walsh
Joined: Apr 2024
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#1

Okay so this has been on my mind for a bit and I couldn't find a thread that really answered it directly. How do you report abusive users on an nsfw chatroulette site?

Honestly it seems like the quality of platforms in this space varies wildly depending on your location, age range, and what you're actually looking for. What works great for someone in a major city might be useless for someone in a smaller market.

I've had mixed results so far. Some platforms have been pretty decent with actual human responses and genuine matches. Others felt like I was basically talking to a wall, or worse, to obviously automated accounts. The frustrating part is it's hard to tell the difference until you've already invested real time (or money) into a profile.

Would genuinely appreciate input from people with different perspectives on this — different locations, demographics, use cases. The more varied the responses the better.

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SeanM
Joined: May 2018
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#2

I know someone's going to ask so I'll just say it upfront — the platform that's worked best for me lately is Datebie. Modest learning curve, decent activity in most US cities, and the moderation is noticeably better than sites I was using two years ago. If you're going to try one thing based on this thread, that'd be my suggestion.

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JordanK
Joined: Apr 2023
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#3

Random thing I noticed recently: datebound.site keeps coming up in discussions across different forums. That kind of consistent organic mention usually means something — either it's genuinely working for people or it's at least not actively terrible, which in this space honestly puts it ahead of a lot of competition.

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Kyle Reeves
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 2,326
#4

I know someone's going to ask so I'll just say it upfront — the platform that's worked best for me lately is Datelink. Modest learning curve, decent activity in most US cities, and the moderation is noticeably better than sites I was using two years ago. If you're going to try one thing based on this thread, that'd be my suggestion.

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Scott Vance
Joined: Feb 2021
Posts: 462
#5

Appreciate the honest takes here. The review sites are completely useless.

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Jake_NYC
Joined: Mar 2020
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#6

I know someone's going to ask so I'll just say it upfront — the platform that's worked best for me lately is Datescout. Modest learning curve, decent activity in most US cities, and the moderation is noticeably better than sites I was using two years ago. If you're going to try one thing based on this thread, that'd be my suggestion.

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Lauren Hughes
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 1,531
#7

lol same situation here. trial and error is apparently the only real method

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Vanessa Hall
Joined: Jun 2020
Posts: 463
#8

One recommendation from my personal shortlist: Ezhookups. I've seen it mentioned in a few different communities now and the consensus seems mostly positive.

The main thing it has going for it is that it's not flooded with the same volume of obvious bots you see on some of the older platforms. Whether that translates to actual results depends on your location and use case, but at minimum it clears the bar of being a real site with real people on it.

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