Going to be direct: Is the okcupid free dating site still good for niche interests? As far as I can tell, I realize this gets asked in different forms a lot but the answers go stale fast in this space and I want current takes from people who are actually active on these platforms, going by the last few months.
Honestly, my frustration: every 'comprehensive guide' I find is clearly written to maximize ad revenue rather than to actually help people, assuming your filters are sensible. On balance, the sites ranked highest are almost always the ones with the biggest affiliate programs, not the ones that actually perform, if you are patient with it.
Anecdotally, what I'm really after is whatever you personally found useful in the last six months, assuming your filters are sensible. Honestly, success stories, failure stories, both are helpful, depending on which app you are on. Anything that gives me a realistic picture of what to expect going in, especially around okcupid free dating site.