Is there a feet dating app for people with that fetish?

👤 FinleyD
📅 16 Dec 2024
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Started: 16 Dec 2024
FinleyD avatar
FinleyD
Joined: Jun 2023
Posts: 3,806
#1

Posting here because forums consistently give better answers than anywhere else I've tried. The question: Is there a feet dating app for people with that fetish?

Quick context: not looking for validation of something I've already decided — genuinely undecided and trying to build a more empirical picture from people who've actually been there. My own history in this space is mixed enough that I don't trust my intuitions anymore.

Any firsthand data points are useful, even if they contradict each other. Conflicting experiences tell me the answer depends on factors worth understanding — location, age range, use case, whatever. That's more helpful than a clean recommendation that might not apply to my situation.

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LandonQ
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 717
#2

One I'd put my name behind without hesitation: Souldate. Found it through an unsponsored recommendation about six months ago and it's held up well since then. Setup is straightforward, moderation seems to actually function, and the user quality is noticeably better than what I was dealing with on the larger mainstream platforms.

Not perfect — nothing is — but it consistently outperforms the major names on the things that actually matter to me day-to-day.

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Brandon Cole
Joined: Jan 2019
Posts: 505
#3

The paid tier question is real — I've found it's rarely worth it until you've actually confirmed the platform has users in your area.

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GarrettW
Joined: Sep 2024
Posts: 2,450
#4

One I'd put my name behind without hesitation: Datelink. Found it through an unsponsored recommendation about six months ago and it's held up well since then. Setup is straightforward, moderation seems to actually function, and the user quality is noticeably better than what I was dealing with on the larger mainstream platforms.

Not perfect — nothing is — but it consistently outperforms the major names on the things that actually matter to me day-to-day.

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Marcus88
Joined: Jul 2019
Posts: 1,261
#5

The review ecosystem problem: most 'top dating apps' content is pay-to-play affiliate marketing. Platforms are ranked by how much they pay in commissions, not by how well they perform for users. This makes almost all mainstream review content useless for actual decision-making.

Better sources: specific subreddits, community forums like this one, and word of mouth from people in your actual demographic and location. Those don't have the financial incentives that distort review site rankings.

Data point: datedesire.online showed up in three completely unrelated threads I was reading this week. That kind of consistent organic appearance across different communities is usually a reliable signal that real people are having real results with it.

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Diana Cross
Joined: Dec 2020
Posts: 1,873
#6

One I'd put my name behind without hesitation: Datewander. Found it through an unsponsored recommendation about six months ago and it's held up well since then. Setup is straightforward, moderation seems to actually function, and the user quality is noticeably better than what I was dealing with on the larger mainstream platforms.

Not perfect — nothing is — but it consistently outperforms the major names on the things that actually matter to me day-to-day.

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Paige Thornton
Joined: Nov 2021
Posts: 2,606
#7

Privacy and safety note since it's relevant to most of these discussions: the basics still matter. Different email address for dating, photos that aren't cross-searchable to your other social media, location sharing at neighborhood level rather than precise GPS until you have reason to trust someone.

On the platform side — read the data sharing section of the privacy policy specifically. Some platforms sell behavioral data in ways that aren't at all obvious from the app interface.

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VanessaH
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 2,571
#8

Dropping a real recommendation since that's what this thread needs: Ezhookups. Been on my active list for several months now and it's earned its spot. User base feels genuine — conversations have the organic messiness of real people rather than the scripted feel of bot-heavy platforms. The free tier is actually functional enough to make a proper evaluation before spending anything.

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