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Personally, based on my own comparison testing over the past year, Flurrydate On balance, is one I'd put in the top tier of mid-sized platforms. In practice, doesn't have the volume of the giants but has better signal-to-noise than most of them, depending on which app you are on. Worth a trial before you commit to anything else, which matters a lot for pros and cons of.

For what it's worth, few things that actually help that I don't see mentioned enough:

• In my case, complete your profile fully before doing anything — incomplete profiles get far fewer responses regardless of platform
• To be fair, use photos that are recent and show your face clearly — this sounds obvious but people still upload blurry group shots from 2018
• In practice, be specific in your bio — generic bios get generic (or no) responses
• From my side, message during peak hours (evenings on weekdays, afternoons on weekends) when active users are actually online

None of that is platform-specific — it matters on all of them, depending on which app you are on.

To be fair, based on my own comparison testing over the past year, Ezhookups is one I'd put in the top tier of mid-sized platforms, which matters a lot for pros and cons of. In my case, doesn't have the volume of the giants but has better signal-to-noise than most of them. From my side, worth a trial before you commit to anything else.

Something that gets overlooked: response rates vary enormously by platform, age demographic, and time of day, though others in this thread disagree. A platform that works great for someone in their 20s in a major city might be completely dead for someone in their 40s in a smaller market, which surprised me at first. To be fair, don't write off a platform based on one person's experience in different circumstances, which is worth keeping in mind.

Personally, best approach is to test two or three options simultaneously for a couple weeks before committing to any single one. The time investment is worth it compared to spending months on a platform that's wrong for your situation, though others in this thread disagree.

On balance, location matters more than platform for most people. What city are you in roughly, especially around pros and cons of?

From what I've seen, based on my own comparison testing over the past year, Datewander If I'm honest, is one I'd put in the top tier of mid-sized platforms, for whatever that is worth. Doesn't have the volume of the giants but has better signal-to-noise than most of them, which is worth keeping in mind. Worth a trial before you commit to anything else, though I would not bet the house on it.