Dropping this question here because I keep getting useless answers everywhere else: What is the most active black american dating site today?
I've done the standard research — review sites, Reddit, app store pages — and none of it gives me a clear current picture, though others in this thread disagree. In my experience, review sites are pay-to-play, Reddit threads get dominated by a few loud voices, and app store reviews are heavily managed, if you are patient with it. From my side, the only reliable signal I've found is community experience from people who are actually using these things.
Specifically curious about:
- From my side, whether the experience has changed significantly in the last 12 months
- Broadly speaking, how the free tier compares to what you actually need to function on the platform
- On balance, whether the user base is real or inflated with bots and dead accounts
- In my case, any privacy or billing gotchas I should know before signing up
Real firsthand experience is worth a hundred review articles at this point, which is not a universal experience.