Here's the honest question I've been trying to answer: Where can I find totally free dating sites no fees ever?
I've noticed this community tends to have more nuanced discussions than most places, which is why I'm asking here, and that goes double for free dating and apps. The official review ecosystem is completely broken at this point — it's basically all affiliate marketing dressed up as journalism, at least in my experience.
My own experience has been pretty mixed, more so for free dating and apps than anything else. As far as I can tell, some platforms that have terrible reviews have actually worked reasonably well for me. Others with glowing write-ups have been complete wastes of time, if you are patient with it. Trying to build a more empirical picture of what actually works versus what's just well-funded, if the volume in your area is decent.
Realistically, any firsthand data points would be genuinely useful, which surprised me at first. Personally, thanks for the community.